WHAT DOES THE FUTURE HOLD FOR "JELENA" BY STEPHANIE ALMAGUER

“JELENA”

CURRENT STATUS IN THE JELENA RELATIONSHIP……

It appears as though there may be some personal growth through good, honest effort and hard work taking place.  This will lead to a positive attitude and positive outcomes for future endeavours.

Financially there may be a welcomed change in the form of a win or windgall is about to take place.  There may be a building up of resources and rewards for work well done.

There’s  some organizing or planning to do before making your next move as There is room for a great deal of growth at this time, so you must be patient in order for your desires to come to fruition.

Be patient.  Decisions to do with choices is apparent.  It is important to weigh up all options  -  the choice being whether to remain in the position you are currently in, or to step forward towards the ‘new’.

It also seems that a focus on finance and career are on the forefront of their minds at the moment…. Time will tell I guess.

SELENA’S  T R U E   FEELINGS AT THE MOMENT…..

Selena is in a karmic situation where she will be forced to learn independence unity and justice with a need to achieve balance, harmony and moderation in all things in her life.  This is a time she should be taking things slow while she regains her inner strength and patience….. and moderation.    She’s working on and maintaining good self control and a balanced personality.

Selena’s entering a time of recuperation, both spiritually and physically.  At this time it is important to keep distractions to a minimum in order to complete the process of healing.

That being said, I do see that she’s still willing to negotiate a possible relationship with Justin, but this time, more on her terms….I see a focus on reassessing situations that seemed to be in the past, but has re-emerged to be deal with yet again…. Hummmm – Yet at this time I think it’s important to live frugally and manage your affairs carefully, particularly at this time…And that things should not be rushed at this time, as there is a need to take things one step at a time or/and within due course.

Rest assured, whatever Selena’s true objectives are, with conscious and subconscious effort, as well as a good dose of patience, which will be needed, she will achieve whatever goals she set’s out to achieve at this time.

This is a time to explore her emotions by considering the things she desires, and the things that she dreads and understanding that in most circumstances she’s facing now,  compromise is the answer to any and all problems.

JUSTIN’S   T R U E   FEELINGS AT THE MOMENT…..

Justin is going through both ups and downs but there seems to be more of a focus on ‘loss’ and perhaps even a feeling of bitterness that could create real problems in a relationship.

I hope that he realizes that In time, the bitterness and emptiness that he may be feeling will pass, and feelings of contentment and happiness will return if he will honestly consider the reasons for these negative feelings, and try to establish a positive goal or desire.

He’s in a place of dissatisfaction and unhappiness brought about  feelings of missed a opportunity or an unjust situation and  dwelling on ‘what might have been’ is a futile exercise, and it is far better to accept things and learn from the lesson, then move on. …. If moving on is simply not what he wants, then he must be willing to compromise and except his faults and be willing to make positive changes…  But either way, holding on to the past at this time is keeping him stuck there and unable to progress forward into potential success in all area’s of his life.

Sadly, Justin is in a period of a true,  deep-felt sorry, which he is finding indescribable and unexplainable ……. remorseful. …. Loss…..and regret.

Justin, for some reason is afraid/ worried that love will pass him by, and there is a feeling of being unloved… He can’t have a positive, happy relationship with anyone until he figures all of this out…

NOW…. I think I must say to him….. things are not a final as they may initially seem.  Deciding what went wrong and why is the first step….but a new beginning and outlook is important…..He’s focusing on the negatives, rather than looking to the positives and it’s holding him back. There are wonderful opportunities to take advantage of, but he needs to be able to see them clearly, otherwise he will not make steady progress and not allow little hiccups to deter him.

AT THIS TIME, I MUST STRESS, He must consider carefully before making major decisions as the effects may have unforeseen consequences.  In addition, The need to take care of himself is important… and not neglect his physical and emotional health as he has been… It is time to change that pattern and look to more healthful lifestyle choices.   Now is the time he should be taking some quality time for himself to rest and rebuild his physical, mental and spiritual energies.
AS LONG AS YOU LOVE ME.............

OBSTACLES WHICH STAND OR STOOD IN THEIR WAY TO A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP TOGETHER…..

Complacency, false optimism, poor judgment, mistakes, errors, imperfections, vanity, a lack of humility…..There it is in a nut shell…..But I think a big part of the problem was that Justin took Selena’s love for granted and believed she’d just be there for him always.   And for a while she was.   What may have began as a positive relationship, eventually turned and selfish ways led to numerous mistakes being made.

Boredom also played a role, believe it or not…. This led to substance use and risky behaviors which ultimately will turn any relationship into shit, especially one between two people who can “have it all” when they want it….  I also feel “BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR, BECAUSE YOU JUST MIGHT GET IT” And you probably don’t really wish for it, but in a diluted, self-centered period in life / thought, you wished or voice this thought and now it may be coming back to bit one of you…..

Lifestyle choices beat them down…. And in the process, one or both of them beat each other down. 

The only way to come back from something like this is space and improving ones self, first…. The damage has been done.  Understanding what tore you apart is the first step if reconciliation is even possible at anytime in the future…. And if not, it will help to progress forward into new and healthy relationships in the future.
A YEAR WITHOUT RAIN.....

OUTCOME WITHIN THE NEXT 3 MONTHS AND/OR ADVICE….

UNFORTUNATELY, I see or must advise against An aggressive, impatient personality, who lately seems to often be in conflict with others rearing their ugly head…..They are wasteful of their energies and create problems everywhere they go.  It is a warning to stay away from someone resembling this energy, as they may upset ones goals and plans……

This person may become obsessive and over-willing to sacrifice others for the causes they believe in or want…….Things just don’t seem to have gotten any easier……with more difficult times ahead for some reason and it’s important to remember that a hot-headed approach will only cause greater problems.

I honest feel as though we’re talking about Justin and he is simply going to struggle through this time and remain stuck…. It seems as though his regret and sadness will turn to anger leading to more poorly thought out actions and more unhealthy indulgent ways…..

The key thing here is going to be patience…..no major decisions for they will be made hastily and possibly for the wrong reason’s leading to more upset and failures.

This time period suggest extravagance and an upset to plans and ideas, which may create problems.  It may even be implying that someone (or something) is opposed to your thoughts, ideals and plans… opposed by others.   If there are plans to start new projects, make drastic changes in lifestyle, or you are about to sign binding contracts.  The message is to put plans on hold until the timing is more auspicious. 

In addition, health-wise, accidents, incidences and illnesses prevail.  Remain vigilant and cautious.  

In other words, without major changes, nothing else changes....SO IN CLOSING, I DON’T SEE A PEACEFUL OR POSITIVE RECONCILIATION ANYTIME SOON AND IF THEY DO GET BACK TOGETHER, THINGS WILL NOT BE ANY BETTER AND IN FACT, COULD BE WORSE….SHOULD BEHAVIORS CONTINUE AS THEY ARE AND HAVE BEEN.

KNOWING THIS CAN PREVENT MISTAKES BEING MADE AND CAN EVEN PUT THINGS INTO MOTION FOR A REAL CHANGE…. THIS OUTCOME IS ULTIMATELY UP TO BOTH SELENA AND JUSTIN… HOW WILL THEY PROCEED?     SELENA SEEMS TO BE IN A BETTER, HEALTHIER PLACE EMOTIONALLY AT THIS TIME AND I HOPE IT CONTINUES FOR HER AND I HOPE JUSTIN CAN REALIZE THIS AND GET HIMSELF IN THIS PLACE ALSO.  GOOD LUCK TO THEM BOTH.  THEY NEED AND DESERVE A BETTER WAY OF LIFE FULL OF HAPPINESS TO ENJOY ALL THEY’VE EARNED AND STILL HAVE IN FRONT OF THEM.